Poll: which person usually looks bad, the cheater, or the person who got cheated on?

i find that most people who cheat, dont think twice cuz they dont think it will taint there image, but the person who gets cheated on looks like a fool, or at least people seem to think of them as the person who couldnt make their signifigant other stay at home, for what ever reason, meanwhile the person who cheated never gets told anything, they may even attract more people, i think it backwards, this is not in all cases, but a lot of the ones i have seen, sorry if i made it a little unclear